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WordPress A Post A Day/Week #40 ~ Describe Your Last Vacation

Describe Your Last Vacation

Well my last vacation with my family was in June, but I want to tell you about the last “adult” vacation I had.  It was a surprise vacation for me from my Husband for our 10th Wedding Anniversary.  He took me to Cancun.  We stayed at The Royal.  An all-inclusive adult only resort.  It was amazing!

I wanted to back up though that tell you what happened at before we left.  We were to be leaving on Easter Sunday.  The Friday before we went out to dinner with some friends for Indian food.  My stomach was feeling odd before we left.  I thought it was hunger pains. To make a long story short, by the next morning at 4:30 a.m. I had driven myself to the ER.  I was diagnosed with an appendicitis.  A couple of hours later I was in emergency surgery for an appendectomy.  Come Sunday morning, Easter morning, I was recovering in the hospital.  Needless to say, we were not flying out for my surprise Anniversary trip that day. Andrew had to change all of the reservations for a week later.

Our trip started out with a driver picking us up to take us to the airport.  We had cocktails on the plane and a great flight. We laughed, held hands, talked and enjoyed ourselves.

Our shuttle picked us up from the airport. We arrived at the resort and it was just beautiful.  Not too large either.  Just perfect! After registering in a private registration area while drinking champagne we went to our room.  There were rose petals on the bed, champagne on ice, chocolate covered strawberries and other sweets and an amazing view of the ocean.  It couldn’t have been better.

The coolest thing about this trip was that Andrew planned it all and each day was a surprise event.  We would get up in the morning and I would quiz Andrew on what I should be wearing, what I should bring.  Bathing suit, no bathing suit… water shoes… good camera, waterproof camera… things like that.  It was fun and exciting.

One of the days we walked down the road from the resort.  To my surprise we were going scuba diving.  It was my very first time and I got to do 2 dives that day.  It was amazing.  It rained a bit that day too, but it didn’t matter.  I just couldn’t believe that I got to actually dive in the ocean the first day that I learned to dive and with only a very short instruction.  Amazing!!

Since it was an all-inclusive resort we got to enjoy all the wonderful food. There were several restaurants on the premises that we had access too. Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner was always a special treat.  Something different each day. Japanese, French-Mexican, as well as several others. Small private dinners with a private Chef. Sharing a table with people from around the world.  It was so cool!

My favorite breakfast of all time.

As you could imagine the sunsets were amazing in Cancun.  I can never resist them.

Each night there was a different show in the central area.  Every one would gather and relax on the comfy couches and chairs.

The pools were beautiful.  Surrounded by in the sand cabanas and lounges.  Relaxing never felt so good. Being able to hang out at the swim-up bar while enjoying the weather. This resort is a must to visit again. The beaches and sea was always calling my name.  We even swam in the rain.  It was coming down so hard it stung my skin at certain times.

On another day we took a cab to the local water park.  Andrew had signed us up to be Dolphin Trainers for the day.  Talk about smart animals.   Wow, these dolphins were so cool.  This is one thing that I would love for my children to do sometime.  We were educated about them.  We swam underwater with them.  We played with them.  What a cool day that was!

The last day we were there I was surprised with a Hummer Jungle Tour.  I got to drive my own hummer while following our guide in his.  Our first stop was to the Mayan Ruins not far from our resort. Our guide gave us a private tour.  I loved listening to his stories. He was well-educated and knew so much about the history of the area. Our next stop was at a cenote.  They are underground caves and natural springs probably a good 30 feet under the ground.  We climbed down the make-shift stairs and ladders.  There were underground docs built.  Stalagmites hung from the ceilings and walls.  The water was crystal clear.  We swam, jumped from the ground floor in to the pool, swung from the zip-line and dropped into the water.  There were hammocks hung over the water and small lanterns to light up the cave.  It was nothing like I have ever seen before.  After swimming we had lunch.  There was a misunderstanding of how long the tour was, so we had to skip the second cenote and the zoo.  Since we had to get to the airport I got to haul ass through the jungle on the way out.  So fun!  What a fantastic trip this day was and the best way to end the most wonderful trip.

 

 

 


One last thing… my gift from Andrew.  A beautiful set of diamonds set in platinum… an Anniversary Ring.  🙂   xo


WordPress Post A Day/Week #10 ~ One Thing You’ve Never Told Anyone and Explain Why

One Thing You’ve Never Told Anyone and Explain Why

The title of this post sat as a “draft” all day yesterday and today until now.  I have been mulling and mulling it over and over in my brain what I could write about on this topic.  Unfortunately, I still haven’t been able to come up with anything.  I have told everything that I have done to at least one person.  I really do think so.  I have played it over and over in my head.  I have done many, many fun and exciting things in my life and some not to fun, but there is someone out there that knows each and every one.  Yep!  End of story.  🙂

xo

It’s A New Day In My Skin – Day 153

Weight:  175

Size:  12/13/14

Exercise:  4 different leg machines today and the treadmill for 2 miles.

Today was my first day back to the gym since my 3-Day walk.  It really did feel great.  We started out with working on some leg machines.  My Orthopedic said that I need to strengthen my inner thigh muscles, which will in-turn strengthen my knees.  Sounded good to me.

After the leg machines we got on the bikes… yeah, I only lasted like 5 minutes on the bike, because it was hurting my ass like hell.  Off to the treadmill I went.  2 miles there, then headed home.

On the drive home I kept saying how happy I was that we worked out today.  It really felt great.  I even came home and took a long nap.  One I think that I have needed for the past several days.  Hmmmm… I liked that.

It was a great day!    Now I am off to do my sit-ups.  🙂

xo

It’s A New Day In My Skin – Day 140

Weight:  181

Size:  14

Exercise:  73 Sit-ups

Just going to make this quick… I haven’t worked out since my 3-Day 60 Mile Walk.  I have been having some issues since I got back, that I will get into when I have more time to sit and write.  No, I should say, when I feel like writing.  Anyway, I DID start the two hundred sit-ups Program today, which is super cool.  At least I am doing something.  🙂

xo

32 More Days!

I can’t believe that I will be doing my first Susan G. Komen 3-Day for the Cure in 32 more days in San Francisco.  I am so excited and so terrified at the same time.  The one good thing I have on my side is that I know I can do it.  I know I can make it through this walk and am so excited and determined to do it.  It is going to be one of the most fabulous experiences of my life.  What a better cause then breast cancer to walk for!!

I booked my air travel today and got an excellent deal on airfare.  Southwest Airlines is the way to fly these days.  You don’t have to pay the extra for your bags, which is putting them ahead of the game.  It was the other airlines stupidity to start charging for bags. Whomever the marketing person was on that one will soon be fired I’m sure.

I need to set up a couple of hotel reservations still, so I will work on that tomorrow.  On Friday and Saturday nights I will be sleeping in the “sea of pink”.  Hundreds of pink tents set-up on our first and second nights of the walk.   Speaking of sleeping in a tent, I need to get myself a very light sleeping pad and also a very light sleeping bag.  The one I have now is not under the weight limit by far.  I believe that we can only bring a bag holding all of our things that is only 30 pounds.  That is 3 days of walk packing, 2 nights in a tent and 2 nights in the City.  I can do this.  🙂

Thus far, I have raised $822.00.  That means I have 32 more days to raise the $2300.00.  I had a BrownBag Party on Saturday night which was pretty successful.  I believe that I raised about $350 from that.  I have also had a Pampered Chef Fundraiser, which was great.  I will be having a Pokeno Game Night on the 11th of September as my final fundraiser.  I am hoping that night will bring in quite a bit.  There will be a $25 per person buy-in, raffle tickets to win gifts and baskets.  It will be a fun and successful evening.

If you haven’t supported me as of yet, but would like too you can support me here…  60 Miles – Please Support Me!!! Thank you!  🙂

xo

It’s A New Day In My Skin – Day 7

Weight:  182

Size:  14

Weight Lost : 5 (up 1 from yesterday)

Exercise:  130 Sit-Ups & 50 Push-Ups

I did the Initial Tests last night for the one hundred push ups and also the two hundred sit-ups Programs.  I was able to do 13 push-ups and 70 sit-ups.  The push-us were harder for me, but the sit-ups usually come pretty easily.  After testing myself the program showed me where to start.  At Week 1 – Day 1 – Column 3 for Push-Ups and Week 3 – Day 1 – Column 3 for Sit-Ups.  Today I did both of those as follows:

Push-Up’s Week 1 – Day 1

Set 1:  10

Set 2:  12

Set 3:  12

Set 4:  7

Set 5:  9

50 Total.  Each with 60 seconds of rest in between.  I did pretty good.  I will be interested to see if I am sore tomorrow.

Sit-Ups Week 3 – Day 1 (Kind of confusing since it is really Week 1 – Day 1)

Set 1: 21

Set 2: 27

Set 3: 21

Set 4: 21

Set 5: 40

130 Total

I will be doing this 3 times a week until I complete the program.  I like exercises that I can do at home, so it is pretty cool.  It is also very cool that I have a good friend, even though across the US from me, is doing it too.  Thanks Helina for all your support! Love you girl!  🙂

xo

Anxiety Within

Ever wake-up in the morning and you just feel off?  Well, I do.  It started after I had my 3rd Son.  Hormones is what they tell me. Out of the blue BAM!!  There it is.  Somedays are worse than others.  At the beginning I didn’t know what it was, then I started paying attention.  It has gotten better over the years, but today I think is one of those day.

It confuses me, because I got woken up by my Husband.  Sex on his mind.  How bad can that be right?  The sex is always good, no problems there.  Then we are off to the shower, or should I say that he was first.  I joined him.  His mood still not very bright… shouldn’t it be after a nice climax though?  Hmmm… sometimes I wonder if my moods are sometimes swayed from the person that I am around the most.  If his mood is off would that affect me?  In some occasions I would say yes.  On the other had I notice the mood and try to stay my positive jovial self, but at times that can be really hard.  Like today.

Our bodies can really confuse me with all of the chemistry going on.  One day up, the next down for some.  For me it is usually several weeks up, then there it is, that one day down.  Thank goodness it is just one day though.

What am I going to do about it?  I took a Flouxetine this morning just in case.  I used to take it every day for PPMD, but then realized that I didn’t need it everyday.  I would rather not take anything anyway.  So, I take it as needed.  When I wake up feeling as I can only describe as “off”.  It is for everyone around me really.  I don’t like to lose my temper, snap, or take things the wrong way on these days, so I prepare myself.  Physically.  Mentally.  Chemically.

This isn’t the usual thing that I write about, but I am thinking that I am getting a little more used to this blog thing.  I kind of like it.  I love to journal and thought that this might take its place, but it hasn’t.  I think there is a blog, where maybe I can write things that people can relate to… or something like that.  Then there is my journal where I can write what ever I want.

I am going to get out of here and head to the gym in a few.  Getting out of the house I think will work good for me too.  Walking 5 miles minimum today.  That is if my back doesn’t start screaming at me.  I am on day 5 of my “liquid diet”.  Down to 181 today… that is 8 pounds total and 6 pounds since this experiment diet.  I just really want to keep it off this time.  Walking is a great way for me to stay motivated.  🙂

xo

Weight-loss Surgery Freak-out!

When I was in CA the weekend before last with my Girls (my family… Niece’s & Cousin’s) I got to talking to one of my Nieces about her weight-loss surgery.  She went on to tell me that she was only 165 pounds when she got her surgery.  I thought about it later and how could that be that she only lost like 40 pounds?  That doesn’t seem right.  Irregardless, she sent me an e-mail the day after I got nome about this new procedure that is not invasive called StomaPhyx.  I have 50 pounds to lose.  I know that it is hard to do, but does it really call for a procedure being done in order for me to get this damn weight off?  I know my hormones suck.  I know that I have to struggle with myself to exercise more than I am used too.  I know that I love alcohol.  I know that I need to actually eat more than I do, or more often I guess I should say.  There are a lot of factors, but Weight-loss Surgery?

I checked out the link she sent me.  Did some research… price, recovery time, how the procedure is done, etc., etc.  This is the conclusion I came too.  If I treated my body like I just had this procedure and focused on what the post-op eating habits are I wonder what would happen?  For the first 2 weeks it is just liquids… high protein.  After 2 – 3 weeks it is soft foods… jello, pudding, etc.  It says that for the first year the person is consuming 400-500 calories!  After the first year they progress up to 1,000 calories, or a bit more.

This is my take… If I do a 2 week liquid diet, wouldn’t I lose weight as well?  I would think so!  I just don’t see why someone would need surgery in order to follow this.  Wait!  Stop!  Okay, I have to back-up.  Yes, I do see why.  There are people who are compulsive eaters, over eaters, yadda-yadda… more power to them to do what works for them.  As for me, I think that I need to just do the “post-op” drill for a couple of weeks and see where it takes me.  To be quite honest, I am terrified of getting some kind of surgery done and so is my bank account.  $8,000 to lose 50 pounds.  What the hell!!!  So, last night I ate the last handful of Whoppers and today I started my First Day of My Liquid Diet.  2 Weeks.  I think that I can do it.  So far so good today.  Let’s see how I do when I make my family dinner tonight.  I should be okay though.  I just keep thinking about what else I could do with that 8 grand and take another sip off of my protein shake.  Mind you I am not stopping drinking tea, milk, fruit shakes, or alcohol.  All liquids right?  I have to draw the line somewhere.  I will write about my 2 weeks off and on… wish me luck!!  🙂

xo

In My Skin – Day 116

Weight:  184

Size:  14

Exercise:  1.28 Miles on the Treadmill and Yoga for an hour.

I took my youngest Son to the gym with me today.  His first time.  I thought that he would do fine since he is almost 5, goes to Preschool 3 days a week and has stayed at our home with sitters and has had a few sleepovers… no such luck.  I fell terrible!!!  He cried.  I couldn’t believe it.  I left him though.  Crying.  How terrible is that!  After 15 minutes I went and peeked in on him, then 10 minutes later once again.  I just couldn’t help myself.  Well, he did just fine and said that he would like to go back another time.  Thank goodness.  I just felt so terrible that he cried.  I am just one of those Mothers.

Yoga was wonderful though.  I did just over a mile on the treadmill, then went to yoga.  It feels so good to stretch and work the other areas of my body.  It is amazing how out of shape I feel in just about 6 weeks of not going to yoga.  It really has always been an important apart of my life and I need to keep it up right now.  This particular yoga class is what I call a “gym yoga class”.  It is not a smooth and rhythmic like I am used too.  It is quicker and more structured, but it works for me still.  I would say that it is the first one at a gym that I actually tolerate.

I have been feeling pretty tired still… physically tired mostly.  I guess I will just hang in there and hope that it will pass.  🙂

xo

In My Skin – Day 113

Weight:  186

Size:  14

Exercise:  7 Miles on the Treadmill

Just got back into town on Friday night from Cancun.  I think walking 7 miles today after having surgery 3 weeks ago and having a week off on vacation is pretty damn good.  I was completely exhausted afterwards and mostly all day, but I am happy that I did it.  Another thing, I was famished all day.  I think that is a good sign for me though.  Usually it means that my metabolism has sped up and I am burning.  I like that sign.  All-in-all I feel really good.  🙂

xo